Dumb Girl: A Journey From Childhood Abuse to Gun Control Advocacy
The inspiring memoir of a woman who overcomes the physical, emotional, and sexual abuse of her early life to blossom into a gun violence prevention activist.
Growing up in a toxic, male-centered household where she’s repeatedly told, “Don’t be a dumb girl,” Heidi’s abused by her dad—starting with a punch in the face at five years old—and left to fend for herself by her alcoholic mom, who neglects to protect her from abusive family members. For years, Heidi’s traumatized and without a voice.
Then comes Columbine. Thirteen years after Heidi graduates from Columbine High, this horrific school shooting rocks the nation—and gives her a sudden sense of purpose. Despite her childhood wounds, or perhaps even because of them, she becomes determined to stop gun violence. Gradually, she finds her voice: organizing vigils and protests, joining the Brady Campaign Board to battle the NRA, and eventually writing a book and directing a documentary about the after-effects of gun violence. In doing so, she finds her inner strength and resolve and overcomes her fear of conflict—and learns that when you frame it the right way, even being “dumb” can be a superpower.
The writing in Dumb Girl is raw and full of emotional depth that allows readers to feel the intensity of Yewman’s experiences. The structure of the memoir blends political and personal history seamlessly together. The author skillfully balances action and reflection throughout the narrative, allowing for quiet introspection combined with louder, more visible moments of her advocacy. The characters, especially her past self and those who affected her, are compelling and drawn vividly. As I read the book, Yewman’s story enthralled me and her perseverance in the face of hardship motivated me. Dumb Girl is a compelling and enduring book because of the author’s openness and vulnerability in her narration. I highly recommend it to readers who value powerful memoirs that delve into complex themes of identity, resilience, social justice, and the power of personal transformation.